You can google it for the definitions :)
The rule is :
1. Daddy must wash it with his own hand, flush with fresh water or salt if needed
2. After finished, place it into a jar/jug made from clay. We called it Kendi
3. Use perfume with the flower essence (usually jasmine), and other ingredients. You can buy it from the traditional florist at market
4. Put a needle, a pencil, a scissors .. into jar, this one is the tradition :) .. google it
5. Put a booklet .. Daddy write notes from latin, arabic, javanese, and also katakana on that booklet
Hope that someday, Zidane will capable understanding many of the languages
6. Put the flower into jar
7. Wrap it in some kind of white cloth
The important thing is, Daddy must be in a holy (suci) conditions.. means he is already have wudhu
And also must say the prayer while he doing all of those8. Daddy must dig a hole to burry the jar.. with his own hand
The deeper the better
Actually Daddy first make a mistake when he dig a hole under the tree ..
Zidane is very cry-baby all the weeks.. and finally some friend of Grandma told us to relocate the place we buried the jug
under the tree
The tradition of bury the Ari-ari is kept until now .. usually we light it until 40 days
Now the new place of Zidane's ari-ari were beside of the room's wall
