Ari - ari

This time I want to share about Plasenta or Ari-ari
You can google it for the definitions :)

The rule is :

1. Daddy must wash it with his own hand, flush with fresh water or salt if needed
2. After finished, place it into a jar/jug made from clay. We called it Kendi
3. Use perfume with the flower essence (usually jasmine), and other ingredients. You can buy it from the traditional florist at market
4. Put a needle, a pencil, a scissors .. into jar, this one is the tradition :) .. google it
5. Put a booklet .. Daddy write notes from latin, arabic, javanese, and also katakana on that booklet
Hope that someday, Zidane will capable understanding many of the languages
6. Put the flower into jar
7. Wrap it in some kind of white cloth

The important thing is, Daddy must be in a holy (suci) conditions.. means he is already have wudhu

And also must say the prayer while he doing all of those

8. Daddy must dig a hole to burry the jar.. with his own hand
The deeper the better

9. Finally he put the jar into the hole

Actually Daddy first make a mistake when he dig a hole under the tree .. 

Zidane is very cry-baby all the weeks.. and finally some friend of Grandma told us to relocate the place we buried the jug

under the tree

The tradition of bury the Ari-ari is kept until now .. usually we light it until 40 days

Now the new place of Zidane's ari-ari were beside of the room's wall

Gift for baby

Now let me share about all of the kindness form families, colleagues and acquaintances

this one is Daddy's choice

from Grandma Tangerang, from Auntie and others

from Grandma Tangerang .. nice place to sleep though Zidane is hard to sleep in the night :) , he always want to get pickaback .. no .. pickafront a.k.a gendong

this nice stroller comes from Auntie Ely and Ricky, thank you .. 

another gift .. dunno from who

no place to keep .. so we moved it to the upper cupboard (lemari)

thank you so much for your love and kindness

Baby born studio

This one is the photo from the Hospital Photo & Studio

Wow, zidane looks so huge on this picture hehe

screammm ..

okey now let him sleep then

Wonderful moment

7 month of pregnancy

Sunday, January 13'rd 2013

This time I want to share about our activity called 7 bulanan as our gratitude and send prayers for sake of the mother's and baby's health

the invitation

preparation by Daddy

food and fruit 

just like an old tradition way from Javanese, we must prepared 7 kind of flowers and also King Banana - Pisang Raja :) , this one is comes from Grandma Malang

King Banana as the symbol for the King .. means we hope that someday Zidane will be as great as King of the world :)

Send prayer .. called pengajian

A kind of tamborin music, called Terbangan

till evening

We pray, may Allah give bless, bring easiness when the birth comes
We pray, may the baby will be a good and religious boy, brings proud to families, served the country as well as the family ..

Aamiin

My first second of life - 2

On Wednesday, June 5th 2014 at 02:30 PM
I was born in this world , along with my super-baby-cry :)

I am the first son of my daddy, Alif and my mommy, Helda
With 3.400 grams of weight, 49 centimeters of height and 34 centimeters of head circle, quite big for mommy

When I was born, my skin is fairly white .. but then I realized that it turns to sexy-tan when I grow up, hehe

this is me with mommy

and with daddy

This is me when I was born
Big baby and pure white skin :)

hope someday I'm gonna be a big thing in this world
Aamiin

My first second of life

Lanjut ke cerita mengenai detik-detik kelahiran Zidane
Pagi itu, Rabu, tanggal 5 Juni 2013 sekitar jam 03.00 , Ibu sudah merasa ada kontraksi
Tak lama kemudian saat dicek di kamar mandi terasa ada pendarahan

Ibu langsung membangunkan Ayah, sambil sesekali bingung dan takut
Ayah berusaha menenangkan Ibu, sambil kemudian mengajak langsung periksa ke RS
Memang waktu itu sudah minggu-minggunya .. pesan dokter andai ada rasa kontraksi, pendarahan, dll langsung dibawa ke RS menemui suster jaga

Sekitar jam 04.00 kami sampai di RS Bunda Dalima, diterima suster jaga kemudian langsung dilakukan scan detak jantung bayi, dan pemeriksaan fisik
Suster bilang ini sepertinya sudah 'bukaan' 1 .. subhanallah.. sepertinya hari yang ditunggu akan tiba
Suster konsultasi ke Dokter kemudian akhirnya disarankan untuk dirawat langsung

Ayah langsung memesan kamar dan mencoba menenangkan Ibu kembali.. kemudian Ayah pulang untuk mengambil perbekalan bersalin yang memang sudah dipersiapkan sebelumnya

Sesampai di rumah, Nenek sempat menanyakan perkembangannya. Ibu harus segera dirawat karena sudah bukaan 1. Tetapi kata orang jarak antara bukaan 1 ke 3/4 biasanya lama, ada kemungkinan bisa lahir tapi dinihari..
Ah apapun itu, Ayah berdoa semoga semua diberi kelancaran dan kesehatan .. aamiin
Ayah langsung kabari Nenek Malang dan ambil ijin kerja hari itu

di ruangan bersalin

mukanya uda lemes

 

disuruh istirahat dulu sama suster

Dari sekitar jam 8 pagi - 9 pagi, Ibu sudah mulai merasa kontraksi dan sakit di perut .. Ayah menjaga dan mendampingi sambil mengajak jalan-jalan ringan

 duduk di teras

 uda mulai kerasa sakit

selanjutnya sekitar jam 10.00 Ibu sudah masuk ke ruang bersalin dan karena saat itu sedang ada tindakan (ada yang melahirkan) akhirnya Ayah diminta keluar dan harus menunggu tanpa ada kabar sampai menjelang jam 3 sore..

Cuma bisa berdoa, berdoa, berdoa dan minta dukungan ..

RSIA Bunda Dalima

Tonight I want to share to you about the place I've born ..
Not a big-great-place but still cozy and calm enough for me ..
:)

Say thankful to ALLAH ..